Bill from Manchester tells
us about finding Gay Ads
It is the time of year I guess, more than not. I hate the holidays,
or at least I used to. I mean come on get real, it’s a time for
family and all that, but what if your family hates your guts because
you are who you are? Sucks big time, especially when as a kid you used
to think of nothing else but family, about decorating the huge tree in
the front parlour. The big dinner with Aunts and Uncles, not to mention
cousins and hell even friends.
For most of my adult life that was taken from me, until I finally got some nerve
up and went and registered for free at this online dating site. Okay I know it
sound friggin lame, but in all honesty I was desperate. I really was sick and
tired of the losers I kept encountering elsewhere. I mean the bars were okay,
and the sex I got out of it was fun too. Like the bloke I met at one pub, and
we did it right there in the parking lot. Well in his car that was in the parking
lot. Course the steamed windows did sort of give it all away and while the guy
had one nice penis, and was pretty good at sucking too, it just didn’t
last long.
Yeah I can remember it fondly but not during the holidays. It sort of blew, if
you catch my drift. Besides, I never did hook
up with him again, that and the
fact the number he gave me was bogus. Kind of sucked that, as I really did think
he liked me. Guess not, or he’d have coughed up the real number. But that
is another story I think. Fact is, I was tired of those type of encounters. I
wanted someone, someone who was real who would give me the real number, not some
bullshit either. I wasn’t too particular then, and maybe
that was my fault. Still when you get kicked out of your home Christmas
Eve because the folks find out you are queer, its rough. You kind of
lose a bit of self esteem and hell, I was only 19 then. Still it did
kind of ruin holidays for me until this year
It was my resolution last New Years that I would not let my folks screw
this year up or the coming holidays. It didn’t quite work at Easter
but shit, that was never all that huge in our house. Just one of those
holidays we noted, but Christmas, well that was different. And when October
came along, well like I said, I was desperate. So I finally knuckled
in to my mate’s suggestion and tried those dating sites.
First one I signed up for was totally bogus. I mean there were no replies, nothing.
It really turned me off, but I figured hell, maybe there was a better one out
there. So I found this place and well, it was different from the outset. I mean
to begin with it looked better. There was some thought to the place and it answered
some of the questions I had without me having to find someone to answer them.
The other place had a contact email, but like, no one, not once, bothered to
reply to my questions. They just seemed to ignore me. This place, was totally
different.
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